If we seek to find something that everyone agrees on, it means it has been done before and it’s proven. You will need to try and do that if you are representing the government because you represent everyone. But in some cases you should just be yourself without consulting externally.
This is confidence we are slowly losing and are complacent about. One cannot make effective decisions if we are constantly requiring feedback. The wants of many are often impossible to accommodate, it is best to stick with making yourself satisfied with the decision.
Be brave and be bold. There will definitely be people who support you.